Relationship Questions 101- (Ladies Version)

Words, uhmm, is one of the most powerful tool that could even tear apart a nation into several parts. In relationship aspect, it could cause a commotion that might bring to an end something that was supposed to be good.

At first, they might seem harmless up there in your head but once uttered, it could turn out to be one of the most stupidest, embarrassing, destructive, evil-ish, and harmful words ever said and the worst part is that you can't take any of them back. So before you speak, think twice.

But before I proceed, spare me a moment to inform you that this particular post does not speak on behalf of all the females so I wouldn't like to see some discriminating comments below. It's just all in good fun so I cant be held liable to any fight/breakup that might occur if you use the knowledge written herein. With that being said, have a good read.

Here's the scheme; I'll drop the questions that  a girl is likely to ask you under different circumstances and the answers that are more appropriate to counter them and which one NOT to make use of.

Healthy Tip Of The Week.

LET IT SHINE

Sun Bath For Vitamin D

The sun’s rays on the skin helps your body to produce Vitamin D, which has been proven to fight against osteoporosis, heart attack, depression, high blood pressure and neuromuscular diseases. And the good news is that you don’t have to pay for this treatment, well unless, you want the version attached with a price tag. Then, foods like Salmon, Mackerel, Oily fish, Eggs, Cheese, Milk and most cereals are your best shot. Just like any wise being would say “a little of everything is not good”, I wouldn’t advice you to stay under the sun for too long or unless, you discovered an anti-cancer skin for yourself.  

Glee Casts Are Back For Season 5.

Following up with the tragic death of one of the lead casts in Glee, Cory Monteith, which had the other cast members thrown off the course. After weeks of grief, they are finally back to perform another installment in Glee,season 5. One by one, they all took to twitter spreading their production and yet, grieving Cory.

However, Finn's story would be written-off after the third episode inwhich drug abuse will be treated in particular to warn the world of the consequences.
Just to take away  the grief, lets just spare a minute or two to view the "Baby edition" of Glee

Can you spot Finn? hehe

Seven Mistakes Made In Marriages.

I guess the term "Healthy Marriage, Long Lives" is to be considered seriously. Below is a list of mistakes made in marriages.
1. Splitting the housework 50/50.

This is often considered the "fairest" way to split the chores, whether it's washing the dishes or walking the dog. But aiming for 50/50 means you're constantly keeping score, making sure that neither of you is getting the short end of the stick, and bickering every time you think you are. Spend too much time fixating on fairness today, and you risk not making it to the long run when things often balance out.

It's better to use a system similar to what economists call "comparative advantage," where each of you is responsible for what you're best at, relative to other tasks. You might handle all the bills, grocery shopping, and laundry, while your spouse sweeps and mops and fixes things when they break. Some weeks, you'll end up doing more, other times it might be 75/25 in his favor-but you don't keep track because if your husband handled the grocery shopping, you might end up with a pantry full of Tostitos.

2. Waiting until you're in the mood to Be Intimate.

Unless you're both extremely hot and share an obsessive addiction to monogamous séx, odds are you're not in the mood as often as you were when you first met. So if you wait 'til you're turned on, months might go by before it occurs to you that maybe séx would be a fun thing to do.

The economist George Loewenstein developed a theory called the hot-cold empathy gap, which says we have two selves: a cold, clear-headed rational self that might say, "I will Be Intimate with my husband when I come home tonight because I love him and I will enjoy it and heck, it's good for my marriage" and a hot, impulsive, emotion-driven, irrational self that says, when the time actually comes, "I've had such a bad day, I feel fat and bloated, my husband is annoying tonight… No way am I Being Intimate. I'm going to watch the TV and go to bed."

When the time actually comes, we may not be in the mood, but we need to listen to our "cool" selves, the voice before we had a bad day. You're not in the mood NOW, but you were THEN, when you were thinking about it, and you'll enjoy it - so just do it. You might not be in the mood, but you won't regret it, either.